Most guys need advice when it comes to dating a MILF. This is because many of them screw up in the process.
Well, you’ve come to the right place. We’ll be running through all the must-dos and don’ts when it comes to this subject. So, read ahead.
Don’t Scold Her Kids
Since she’s a MILF, she will have kids around. You should be careful and not try to co-parent with her. This is a very bad move as you two are just dating, so, you’re someone who’s just temporarily in her life.
As you’re not a permanent part of her life (yet), you have no right to tell her kids off for anything. If they do something wrong, it’s up to her to handle them.
If you try and parent them, not only will it make her very uncomfortable, but the kids will have a bad impression of you. This can tarnish your relationship with her. So, if they tell her they don’t like you, you’re practically done for.
Are You Good With Kids?
If you want to meet a MILF, there are easy ways to do so. Sites like Meet-a-milf.com are at your disposal. Once you’ve met a MILF online, you need to watch what you say to her. When you speak to her for the first time, you may try and impress her. So, you may blurt out that you’re really good with kids.
You know she’ll appreciate this, so she’s bound to test these skills one day.
If things go well and you have to look after her kids if she’s busy, not knowing what you’re doing will make you seem like a liar. This is especially true if you boasted about how good you are around them.
If you aren’t, handling them can even be risky, so don’t take up such a job.
Do You Want Her Kids Around?
Not being good with kids is one thing, but you shouldn’t be in a relationship with a MILF if you don’t like children in general.
Yes, the two of you may have a steamy fling, but if you get serious, her kids will become a part of your life. If you have no desire to have them around, you’re putting everyone in an uncomfortable position.
This will cause you to ill-treat them, even if you don’t mean to. The kids probably have a void in their life, so a father figure would be what they’re looking for; not someone who doesn’t like them.
You’re Too Fond Of Her Kids
Maybe you do like kids and in fact, you’re really good with them. This is great, but you shouldn’t use this as an excuse to always have her kids around.
It can be obvious that you’re doing this to show off, for starters. If you’re overenthusiastic, you’re driving a wedge between the two of you. She’ll feel like her kids are more important to you and may feel neglected.
So it’s important that her kids are not always around when you date her.
Don’t Always Bring Up Her Age
Yes, she’s older than you. This isn’t something you should always talk about. By constantly doing so, you’re damaging your relationship.
How so? Well, the age difference between you and her will always be in the back of her mind. This can cause her to become very insecure.
Even if it’s not, constantly bringing up her age will annoy her. Her being older than you will be the cornerstone of your relationship. If the age gap is big, your relationship will start to become something that’s very mother-son-like. Gross!
What Are Your Bad Habits?
Kids are very impressionable. This is why adults try to keep them away from bad habits like drinking, smoking or swearing. Since you’re probably new to dating someone with a kid, you may not always be conscious of this.
So if you’re a drinker, smoker, or tend to swear a lot, try to avoid doing these things in front of her kids. After all, she is a mother first so she’ll always put her kids over you.
Conclusion
Considering the above points, there are many no-nos to remember when dating a MILF. Thankfully for you, you’re aware of them now and can put them into practice.
