You like how things are going and want to get serious. You have no idea if the MILF you’re dating shares these feelings, though. MILFs can be hard to read. We ran through 7 tell-tell signs that will tell you if she wants to become a part of your life or not.
She’s Opening Up
MILFs have been with several men, so their hearts have been broken multiple times. This is why they’re more reserved. A MILF would start opening up to you if she thinks you’re the one.
You may not realize that she’s opening up to you, though. It’s a gradual process, that you need to keep your eye out. When you notice her being open, encourage her. You can do this by opening up as well. The beauty of this is that the bond you share would become more intimate.
She’s with You A Lot
Don’t forget that MILFs are mothers. She has to juggle taking care of her kid along with all the responsibilities in life. She would generally be very busy, which is why her spending a lot of time with you is a sign of commitment.
She may want to spend more time with you but is reluctant. She’s most likely dropping hints about you staying at her place more, and wanting to meet your friends and family.
You’re All Over Her Instagram
MILFs are mature women, so they’re not carried away by social media. She may not post much on Instagram, but when she does, it’s with you. This is a major sign that she’s ready to get serious, as she wants to tell the world that she’s with someone. Considering that’s she’s not big on social media, the fact that she took the effort to do this is great.
She may not only post pictures with you, but she may regularly comment on your stuff. She especially wants to get serious if she’s following your loved ones. She’s doing this as a way to bond with the people in your life.
She Wants You to Meet Her Loved Ones
She’s been around longer than you, so she knows how easily relationships can end. She won’t just let anybody enter her life. If she wants you to meet her loved ones, she has placed her bets on you and wants to see how a future with you would look like.
Her loved ones want the best for her – having them meet you would let them evaluate you. She’s probably deciding if you’re right for her or not, so their opinions would matter.
Likewise, she wants to take things to the next level if she’s insisting on meeting your family. She knows that you truly don’t become a part of someone’s life until you’ve met their loved ones.
She’s Committed
MILFs know that their best chance at finding love is by seeing a lot of men. They’re not young, so they don’t have any time to waste. Hopefully, she has decided that you’re the one. If you met on sites like meet-a-milf, a good sign would be her account being deactivated. You’ll also know she’s committed by making note of the above points.
She’s Planning A Future
If she wasn’t serious, she wouldn’t want to spend her life with you. Evaluate whether she’s planning your future together. At first, it won’t be huge plans. Look at everything she says in the near future. If there’re plans for a few months away, you have nothing to worry about.
She Knows the Small Details
As we’ve established, her life is hectic. Trying to juggle you with her kids is not easy. If she likes you, her managing to remember small details about you is great. You mean a lot to her, which is why she remembered them.
Final Thoughts
Let’s wrap things up. A MILF can be hard to read. Anyone who has dated one would tell you this. You like how things are going, but you have no idea if she does. A sign of her wanting to take things seriously is her opening up. Remember that she’s been through a lot of heart-break, so wearing her heart on her sleeve is not easy.
It also won’t be easy for her to spend time with you. She has a child and life to juggle, so making room for you is a sign of commitment.
Whether she’s a MILF or not, asking you to meet her family is a good sign. Meeting someone’s loved ones is a huge move, which you don’t do unless you see a future with them. Likewise, her wanting to meet your family also means that she wants to take things to the next level.
You probably know this, but older women are notorious for being with multiple men. They want to find the one – being with multiple people would help them with this. If you’re the one, the above points would check out.
By this point, you know if she’s ready to get serious.
